The Love Doctor Will See You Now
By Paul Maglietta
Title: "Exploring the Intricacies of Relationships with the Love Engineer, Mr. Alan Watts"
### Introduction
In a recent episode of our podcast, we had the privilege to welcome a guest who considers himself a "Love Engineer", not a title you come across every day! Mr. Alan Watts, a life coach, kinesiologist, and author, joined us in a fascinating discussion about relationship dynamics, masculine and feminine energy, the effects of social media on relationships, and the concept of self-awareness and truth in finding and maintaining successful relationships.
### Masculine and Feminine Energy in Relationships
One topic we delved into is the concept of masculine and feminine energy within relationships. Watts explains that we all embody these two energies; the masculine is often associated with attributes like strength and reliability, while the feminine is typically connected to care, nurturing, and empathy. Today’s society sees a blurring of these traditional roles—with men becoming more feminine and women more masculine—creating a change in relationship dynamics.
However, as Watts explained, there is a biological tendency for opposites to attract, and this shift in energies could create a misalignment of attraction. It's important to recognize and embrace these energies within ourselves, without allowing societal expectation to dictate their expression.
### The Impact of Social Media on Relationships
Social media has had a significant impact on our relationships. Online platforms allow us to connect with countless people worldwide, which, while expanding the dating pool significantly, also brings about a whole new array of challenges and pressures.
Watts contended that while social media offers awareness—the first step in the dating ladder—it doesn't solve the fundamental components of a successful relationship, such as understanding and trust. We've become accustomed to showing the world our "Instagram-friendly" versions, leaving those parts backstage that we think are not "lovable." This can create false perceptions and potential disconnects in relationships.
### Reconsidering Divorce's Negative Connotation
A rather intriguing notion we discussed was the way Watts perceives divorce—not necessarily as a wholly detrimental event, but rather as an opportunity for growth and deeper self-understanding. Since every individual and relationship dynamic is unique, there is no one-size-fits-all solution. There are times when ending a marriage is the most beneficial option for personal development.
After his own divorce, Watts embarked on a journey to understand relationships, eventually leading him to become a valuable contributor to personal development and relationship coaching fields.
### Penning Down His Thoughts - The Journey of Writing a Book
Mr. Watts is also a successful author, having written two books. His debut, 'Running Wild and Running Free', epitomizes his life journey. The book explores his experiences, from growing up on a farm to navigating his own identity and purpose post-divorce and finding his passion as a relationship coach. By sharing his personal narrative, he hopes to impart lessons and insights to readers on their relationship journeys.
### Conclusion
Our enlightening conversation with Mr. Alan Watts, the Love Engineer, reinforced the importance of personal self-awareness in relationships and the role societal changes play in shaping communication and connection within relationships today. His insights serve as a thoughtful guide for anyone seeking deeper understanding and fulfilment in their relationships.
If you would like to learn more about Mr. Alan Watts and his work, visit his website 'The Love Engineer Rocks'. You can also listen to his podcast, 'Relationship Revolutions', available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.